10 Entrepreneurship Values

GET OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE!

First Rule: “The sky is the limit”. I’ve always learnt how to stretch my potentials & abilities to a higher level. Challenge within yourself. Know that the world will be against you when you think of a life-changing idea. People simply don’t like change. Understand that, and push through the doubters and rise above the noise.

DREAM BIG DREAMS

Constantly dream big during second of your life! Allow yourself to imagine & fantasize about the kind of life you would like to live & the kind of money you would like to earn & have in your bank account. Remember the song “You have to dream if you want the dream to come true”.

DON’T GIVE UP

When you are on the brink of quitting because everything seems to be falling apart, pull yourself together and keep on fighting hard. 99% of success is purely base on PRESEVERANCE, PASSION & DETERMINATION in life you have today!

DEVELOP A CLEAR SENSES OF DIRECTION

Take your dreams out of the air & crystallize them into clear & specific written goals. Greatest discovery in human history today is that, “You become what you think most of the time”. Two factors that determine what happens to you in life, more than anything else, are what you think about & how you think about it.

SEE YOURSELF AS SELF-EMPLOYED

Accept complete, 100% responsibility for everything you are & everything you will ever be. Never make excuses or to blame other people for your problems & shortcomings. You are totally responsible for your life. If there is something in your life that you don’t like, it is up to you to do something about it. But you are in charge!

DO WHAT YOU LOVE TO DO

Most self-made millionaires say that they “never worked work a day in their life”. Find out what you really love most about your job, what you have a natural talent for & to throw your heart into doing that very very well.

KEEP REPEATING TILL YOU PERFECT YOUR WORK

Success is not success unless it is repeatable. Keep practicing your work, focusing into small actions leading your big goals, keep meeting your minimum KPI requirements, keep handling objections till all these practices become part & parcel of your life. Remember, slowly but surely is an ultimate success.

DARE TO BE DIFFERENT

Entrepreneurs are usually the people who go down a different route than the masses, taking a road, which is less travel by other people without looking back. People who take this less travel road than other people will usually able to succeed in their life & career. Get out of the norm today!

PRACTICE 40 PLUS FORMULA

Work 40 hours for survival. Everything more than 40 hours is for success. Every hour above 40 hours is an investment in your future. Average self made millionaires around the world usually work 59 hours in a week. Start early, work efficiently & enjoy your social life during weekend!

DEDICATE TO LIFELONG LEARNING

First- Get up & read in your field for 30 mins each day. Reading is the mine as exercise is to the body. You will become the one of the smartest, most competent & highest paid people in your profession by simply reading 30 mins each day.

Second- Listen to audio programs. Average sales professional drive about 25,000 miles p/annum. This means, allowing for traffic, salesperson sits behind the wheels about 1000 hours per year= 6 months of 40 hours p/week. Turn your car to learning machine.

Third- Attend as many seminar previews/ courses that you can possibly find to help you to be better in your industry. All these 3 combinations will save you hundred of thousand dollars in your life & to become a champion in today’s competitive industry.

Difference

愚笨的女人盯着男人的缺点，老是生气；
聪明的女人欣赏男人的优点，很是开心。

愚笨的女人不分场合与男人争吵，弄得男人很没面子；
聪明的女人在外人面前给足男人面子，私下再对男人严加管教。

愚笨的女人贬低男人——她忘了：贬低男人就是贬低自己；

聪明的女人赞赏男人——她明白：赞赏男人才是炫耀自己。

愚笨的女人不停地唠叨那些陈年旧事；

聪明的女人与男人一起憧憬美好未来。

愚笨的女人抓住男人的过错不放，以为自己看透了男人的本质；

聪明的女人原谅男人，把男人比作永远长不大的孩子。

愚笨的女人会说“你给我滚！”；

聪明的女人会说“不许离开我！”

愚笨的女人把男人当弹弓，拉得越紧，飞得越远；

聪明的女人把男人当风筝，悠然地牵着手中的线。

愚笨的女人过于强调自我；

聪明的女人善于寄托和依靠。

愚笨的女人对男人寸步不离；

聪明的女人和男人若即若离。

愚笨的女人知道洗衣做饭，但不愿再梳妆打扮；

聪明的女人也知道洗衣做饭，但不忘扮靓自己。

愚笨的女人带给男人压抑和压力；

聪明的女人带给男人激情和动力。

愚笨的女人使男人在她的泪水中失败；

聪明的女人使男人在她的笑容中成功。

愚笨的女人打击男人；

聪明的女人激励男人。

What are you?

Skyfall

Again, she failed as wife. I was home early last night, asked her to go for the new Bond 007 movie, Skyfall. She said she was tired. Fine!

As a wife, I expect more from her. I'm having athlete foot for the past few months, she only know how to complain that my foot stinks but what had she done? Did she take the effort to bring me see doctor or as simple as buy some foot deodorant for me? No! Last week I went to the pharmacy myself to get some medication for my foot and the pharmacies gave me some soluble for me to soak my foot in lukewarm water. As a wife, I expect her to at least get ready the water for me to soak my foot while I shower. She didnt, just lie down on the bed surfing facebook with her mobile!

After shower, I've asked her again if she would like to join me for the new Bond 007 movie as I'm pretty excited, its the 1st night of screening! She complied unwillingly, changed her clothes and walk out of the house straight to the lift without waiting for me. What is this? I'm trying to have a good time with her as I realized that we dont spend time together as often. I'm trying to have some good time with her but she just ruined everything! I cant bare with all this any longer. It was 1130 when we reach and the next available show was at 1200am, she said its too late and she wanna go home and sleep! WTF?! She just failed and failed! I'm here spending time with her and she just spoil everything. She used to complain that I dont spend enough time with her and the family, asked me how many hours I spend with her in a week etc. Come on.. Go fuck yourself!

Love Is 2-Way, Not 1-Way, Else Its No-Way

I am unhappy with the facts that she is less invested in our marriage and I am not her top priority. I still remember clearly on our recent anniversary and birthdays, I take the effort to plan on how we should celebrate it, where we should go for some good time, just the two of us but she rather go to work. If I can take a day off on this special occasions, I dont see a reason why she cant. We've been together in this relationship for the past 7 years, we came a long way, we celebrated 7 birthdays, 6 Christmas, 6 Valentines, 6 anniversaries. I remembered each and every of them clearly and I never failed to get something for her. How about her? How many present do I received from her in this 7 years? Is this love? Ironically, on the other hand, she remembered Mother's Day, Father's Day, her mother's birthday, her father's birthday clearly and its a must for her to get something for them. I cant accept a wife that prioritize her maiden family over her husband! Is this love?

I am unhappy with the facts that our life after marriage was misconstrued beliefs and unrealistic vs my expectation. I dont feel home. Its practically just a shelter for showers and some rest rather than home. I had a terrible childhood, my parents are so busy finding money that they failed to provide me the love of a home. I dont want this anymore! I wish that there will be days that I will wait impatiently for the clock to struck 10pm and I would rush home because I know there will be someone waiting for me at the door, greet me with hugs and kissses, make me some supper even if I'm full, have some casual chat, ask me how was my day etc. But no, I feel so lonely. Every time I reach home with the hope that she is still awake, turns into disappointment. No one greet me at the door other than my maid. Even as a maid, she has the courtesy to ask me "have you taken your dinner, there is soup in the kitchen" without fail. Where's my wife? No doubt she might be tired or need to wakes up early next day but cant she at least open her eyes and give me a good night kiss? At times, I really miss her and right after my shower, I get into the bed cuddling up next to her, hugging her and put my arms over her but she doesnt like it at all, she feels that I am disturbing her sleep and even asked me to sleep further as she need more space. Is this love?

I am unhappy with the facts that we are lack of communication, inability to constructive share concerns, emotion, thoughts, ideas or plain chat with each other. Each and every single joke, humors I cracked for her seems to be lame. It had been awhile since I last make her laugh. I always want to have some time to our own, cuddling up on the bed or sofa, listening to some slow music and share some thoughts, view of our future, our directions etc but she was never such a person. I am really in dilemma, this is not what I want. How long has it been since we talked to each other, hanging over the phone or even fighting? I cant remember when is the last time I really sit down and talk to her. If there's something that she need to tell me, sms or facebook would be our medium. Is this love?

I am unhappy with the facts that we are sexual incompatibility, lack of frequency, desire, comfort and satisfaction. I always have high sex drive but our sexual encounter had changed from "making love" to "having sex". There is no feeling involved. No kissing, no foreplay and at times we dont even strip to barenaked, its practically just get down to business. And why does it always have to be my initiative? Doesnt she has any sex appeal and desire? She just do it simply for my pleasure, my physical satisfaction, basically there are just motions without emotions. And for the record, our sexual encounter was as low as once a month and she can just live with it just fine. Is this love?

Feelings Are A Feedback Mechanism

Just 1 year 9 months since we tied the knot on 9th Jan 2011 and I am not feeling right about this marriage. I am feeling unsure as to what I should do about my feelings of dissatisfaction about this marriage. Our feelings are a feedback mechanism to us about whether we're on track, whether we're on course or off course, the latter seems in favor.

The voices; internal and external - are loud, persistent and conflicting. "Leave her. She's not right for you!", "Are you crazy? She's such a great mother to Velfred.. how could you think about destroying his future?!"

I am at a crossroads, trying to decide what to do, working hard at make sense in my own head about what I want. It's been a pretty good relationship with highs and lows; intervals of stress and strain intermixed with moments of bliss. I've been in other relationship too so I'm not naive about the challenges that pop up with any person. I know love takes effort.

Yet, there's a nagging feeling of dissatisfaction that wont's go away. I've tried to stand back and assess exactly what isn't right in this marriage. My decision isn't as straightforward as it might be if she was an abuser of some kind, but she is really a good person. I'm just not happy in this marriage and who I'm when I am with her. I feel stuck, wondering where I go from here. I'm just not sure if this marriage is right for me.